Whatever we prepared for our future. We don’t know what happens in future. Life is always unpredictable.
We also don’t know when which is our last day of life.
Facing the reality and moving on in life is hard sometimes. But life doesn’t stop for someone. Sun rises and moon rises. Days comes and goes. Years comes and goes. Whatever happens with us doesn’t matter , life never stops.
And that’s bitter reality, we have to accept it , face the situation and have to move on and continue the journey.
If you cannot reconnect , focus on yourself in the most loving , intimate way possible. Relate to yourself as you would to a best friend. If needed , seek out a best friend. The key is to strengthen your connection with life as it unfolds in you.
Regardless of what happens in your social life , you are always a living miracle made of stardust , a part of nature that can never really become unattached from God or what agnostics call the web of existence.
I can safely say I ‘ve grown through different phases of my life over the past decade.
From eagerly growing out of high school, to graduating from university and then getting post graduation degree from autonomous institute and after that Finding my own identity and now doing my first job.
Of course when the phases were colorful , a big part of them were filled green.
Upon reflection, there certainly is no need to seek validation from others.