Listen Actively

Actively learn to pay attention and demonstrate to others that you truly value their opinions and what they have to say…

Choose active listening , open-ended question , with supporting body language and remove any distractions that impede with your ability to listen.

Active listening habits pay a lot to your standard of life , Sometimes any conversation or just one sentence say a huge meaning but that time we have to listen actively to understand it.

Listen Actively …..Think on It …..

Happy Listening.

Rule of Five Years

If you use five years wisely , you can come out the other side of them exactly where you want to be. Yes , Five years rule works….

It takes five years to fully re-invent yourself —- said by Entrepreneur James Altucher.

It takes four to six years to build a blog that create wealth —- said by Blogger Jon Morrow.

In between the five years — Use Rule 100 : Write 100 blog , do something 100 times to get good at it. Don’t focus on making each one perfect ; just focus on doing your things , over and over.

But first you have to start and be consistent throughout and Don’t quite.

In the beginning , we might just be trying to survive . Most people quit in this phase.

Win through your action , Never Through argument.

Any momentary trumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory . The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion.

It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your action without saying a words.

Demonstrate , do not explicate.

Resource : The 48 law of power.

Yesterday , I completed 2 months of my Assistant Professor Job.

When I joined as assistant professor , after one day of joining their is lockdown announced here in Maharashtra , India. But Our college is not closed , in lockdown also we have to go college and take lecture and practical sessions online.

Because of lockdown their is all government transportation are suspended and district boundary are ceiled but in this case also i managed somehow to go college. I did it first 15 days.

After that 3 weeks , the college give us permission to take lecture and practical as work from home basis. And from last 3 week the college are one day online and one day offline , but because district boundary are locked , the faculties from outside of district have to take (LWP) i.e. leave without pay and work from home basis have to take lecture , practical and submission.

And also this is my first job and I don’t have any experience related professor job so also I face lot of difficulties, but I never gave up. The lot of obstacles are came in this 2 months but I never gave up. I am trying all my best…But in this 2 month , I learned a lot and also get lot of experienced …I know this is not too much experience but It’s worth it.

And Also Thanks to all my blogger friends for your support and best wishes.

Conceal Your Intentions

Keep people off-balance and in dark by never revealing the purpose behind your action.

If they have no clue what you are up to , they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them enough far down wrong path , envelop them in a enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intention , it will be too late.

Do not reveal what you have thought upon doing , but by wise council keep it secret being determined to carry it into execution.

Resource : The 48 laws of power.

Don’t Compare yourself to others

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.

Oprah Winfrey

Don’t Compare yourself to others . In social media age , it is tempting to beat yourself up if your friends are getting married , having kids and living a life of luxury.

Don’t compare your life to others…… There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time. —-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Research suggest that comparing yourself to others are pointless. That’s because , from the outside , people can seem a lot happier and less troubled than they really are.

The death of contentment is comparison to others.

We each live our own lives. By comparing yourself to others , the only thing you are going to do is hurt yourself.

Personality Begins when Comparison leaves off . Be Unique , Be Proud , Be Memorable , Be Confident.

Shannon L. Alder