Listen Actively

Actively learn to pay attention and demonstrate to others that you truly value their opinions and what they have to say…

Choose active listening , open-ended question , with supporting body language and remove any distractions that impede with your ability to listen.

Active listening habits pay a lot to your standard of life , Sometimes any conversation or just one sentence say a huge meaning but that time we have to listen actively to understand it.

Listen Actively …..Think on It …..

Happy Listening.

Rule of Five Years

If you use five years wisely , you can come out the other side of them exactly where you want to be. Yes , Five years rule works….

It takes five years to fully re-invent yourself —- said by Entrepreneur James Altucher.

It takes four to six years to build a blog that create wealth —- said by Blogger Jon Morrow.

In between the five years — Use Rule 100 : Write 100 blog , do something 100 times to get good at it. Don’t focus on making each one perfect ; just focus on doing your things , over and over.

But first you have to start and be consistent throughout and Don’t quite.

In the beginning , we might just be trying to survive . Most people quit in this phase.

Conceal Your Intentions

Keep people off-balance and in dark by never revealing the purpose behind your action.

If they have no clue what you are up to , they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them enough far down wrong path , envelop them in a enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intention , it will be too late.

Do not reveal what you have thought upon doing , but by wise council keep it secret being determined to carry it into execution.

Resource : The 48 laws of power.

Dress Right , It always pays

Look important -it helps you think important.

Rule : Remember your appearance “talks” . Be sure it says positive things about you. Never leaves home without feeling certain you look like the kind of person you want to be.

Most honest advertisement appearing in print — ” Dress Right , You can’t Afford Not To. “

One advertisement primarily for child but it can be applied to adults as well. “Look at yourself through your superior’s eyes , your associate’s eyes “

It costs so little to be neat . Take the slogan literally. Interpret it to say ” Dress Right , it always pays.”

People do evaluate you on the basis of your appearance. Your appearance is the first basis of your evaluation other people have. The point is : the better you are packaged , the more public acceptance you will receive.

Appearance is important but how do you expect me to afford the kind of clothing which really makes me feel right and which causes other to look up to me?

Answers is : ” Pay twice as much and buy half as many.”

In sofar as appearance is concerned , quality is for more important than quantity. Remember : Your appearance talks to you and it talks to others. Make certain it says , “Here is a person who has self-respect. He’s important . Treat him that way.”

You own it to others – but , more important , you own it to yourself – to look your best.

You are what you think you are . If your appearance makes you think you’re inferior , you are inferior . If it makes you think small , you are small.

Look your best and you will think and act your best.

Resource : The magic of thinking big by David J. Schwartz.

Image resource : Levi’s model (google).

Don’t Compare yourself to others

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.

Oprah Winfrey

Don’t Compare yourself to others . In social media age , it is tempting to beat yourself up if your friends are getting married , having kids and living a life of luxury.

Don’t compare your life to others…… There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time. —-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Research suggest that comparing yourself to others are pointless. That’s because , from the outside , people can seem a lot happier and less troubled than they really are.

The death of contentment is comparison to others.

We each live our own lives. By comparing yourself to others , the only thing you are going to do is hurt yourself.

Personality Begins when Comparison leaves off . Be Unique , Be Proud , Be Memorable , Be Confident.

Shannon L. Alder

Review on ” Inflow Of New Thought Can Remake You”

“Inflow of new thought can remake you” is the chapter in book which is ” The Power of Positive Thinking” by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale . Here , I can share a some beautiful sentence which is from the book .

The greatest discovery of my generation is that human being can alter their lives by altering their attitude of mind.

“A Man’s life is what his thoughts make of it ” said Great thinkers of antiquity Marcus Aurelius.

“A Man is what he thinks about all day long” said the wisest man who ever lived in America was Ralph Waldo Emerson.

A famous psychologist said ” There is a deep tendency in human nature to become precisely like that which you habitually imagine yourself to be.”

Condition are created by thought far more powerfully than condition create thought. Think one way and you attract the conditions which that type of thinking indicates. Think another way and you can create an entirely different set of conditions.

This great law briefly and simply stated is that if you think in negative terms you will get negative results . If you think in positive terms you will achieve positive results. That is simple facts which is at that basis of an astonishing law of prosperity and success.

Their is magical three words ” Believe and Succeed .”

When you pray for something at the same time visualize what you pray for. Believe that if it is God’s will and is worthwhile , not selfishly sought after , but for human good , that it is at that moment given you.

The secret of a better and more successful life is to cast out those old , dead , unhealthy thoughts. Substitute for them new , vital , dynamic faith thoughts.

You can depend upon it – an inflow of new thought will remake you and your life.

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You Are A Product Of Your Environment

Every experience in life , everything with we have come in contact in life , is a chisel , which has been cutting away at our life statue. So choose the environment that will best develop you towards your objective.

Environment is your mind food. The kind of mind food we consume determines our habits , attitudes , personality. The mind reflects what its environment feeds it just as surely as the body reflects the food you feed it.

Each of us inherited a certain capacity to develop. But how much of that capacity we have developed and the way we have developed that capacity depends on the kind of mind food we’ve been fed.

Environment shapes us , makes us think the way we do . Make it Well.

Researcher agree that the person you are today , your personality , ambition , present status in life , are largely the result of your psychological environment.

Your future environment decides what kind of person you will be one , five , ten , twenty years from now.You will change over the months and years but how you will change depends on your future environment , the mind food you fed yourself .

Resource : The magic of thinking big (book)