Lessons From 20-Something

  • Failure is a necessary and valuable part of growing up , because by our 30s we will inevitably have faced some setbacks.
  • In our 30s , we are perhaps finally old enough to head some good life advice.
  • Don’t compare yourself to others.
  • Practice Gratitude.
  • Embrace the beautifully messy , ordinary adult lives most of us lead.
  • Don’t adhere too rigidly to any one vision for your life.
  • Be flexible and adaptable.
  • Finally , Figure out what you want verses what you think you want and adjust accordingly.

Don’t Compare yourself to others

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.

Oprah Winfrey

Don’t Compare yourself to others . In social media age , it is tempting to beat yourself up if your friends are getting married , having kids and living a life of luxury.

Don’t compare your life to others…… There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time. —-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Research suggest that comparing yourself to others are pointless. That’s because , from the outside , people can seem a lot happier and less troubled than they really are.

The death of contentment is comparison to others.

We each live our own lives. By comparing yourself to others , the only thing you are going to do is hurt yourself.

Personality Begins when Comparison leaves off . Be Unique , Be Proud , Be Memorable , Be Confident.

Shannon L. Alder