Connect With Yourself

If you cannot reconnect , focus on yourself in the most loving , intimate way possible. Relate to yourself as you would to a best friend. If needed , seek out a best friend. The key is to strengthen your connection with life as it unfolds in you.

Regardless of what happens in your social life , you are always a living miracle made of stardust , a part of nature that can never really become unattached from God or what agnostics call the web of existence.

My life lessons, I learned in 2021

1. We all have a different story to tell.

2. Sometimes slow progress is better than no progress.

3. Be proud of yourself , for How hard you’re trying.

4. The greatest win is walking away and choosing not to engage in the drama and toxic energy at all.

5. If you lay with a scorpion don’t be surprised when it finally stings you.

6. If you have enemies, good that means you stood up for something.

7. The future depends on what you do today.

Learned a lot from life lessons and move on ; Life goes on.

Learn About Yourself

The more you learn about yourself , the more you will see the good and bad things of your attitude. People are complex being with good and bad traits. Sometimes these bad one take the best of us.

It’s immensely important to understand and accept yourself the way you are. It’s the only way to go if you want to be happy in life.

We are constantly changing, and that is a good thing. What would be even better , is if we recognize the change and make something positive out of them.

In conclusion , you can be happy and satisfied with what you are doing right now , but you should also keep learning and upgrading all the time.

Bucket List

I created this bucket list from last 2 years ….bit by bit it grows and hit 50 bucket list ideas which I want to complete in my lifetime. In future , I also update this bucket list cause as life changes priority changes so may be This bucket hit 75 or 100 ideas in future. I wish , I hope , I complete this all bucket list.

  1. Achieve a Personal Satisfaction.
  2. Make a Journal of Life.
  3. Create Blog.
  4. Attempt Meditation.
  5. Watch a sunrise and sunset in one day.
  6. Cook a few food. [at least 20 new dishes ] [cook something new every day for 30 days].
  7. Leave a Love Note on Bathroom Mirror.
  8. Reconnect with the old friends.
  9. Write a letter to your Future self.
  10. Hug a Redwood.
  11. Change Your Hair.
  12. Read a Book you own.
  13. Go 24 Hours without Internet , Radio or Television. [Every month ]
  14. Sleep under the stars.
  15. Be Published.
  16. Design a website.
  17. Create a photo journal
  18. Master a new Language.
  19. Write my life story.
  20. Look 10 years younger.
  21. Go wine tasting . [ Learn wine appreciation]
  22. Create a traditional dish from different culture.
  23. Have a collection.
  24. Exercise daily 30 minutes at least [hit a fitness goal].
  25. Make a new friend.
  26. Became a morning person.
  27. Visit all India before die.
  28. Write a five years plan.
  29. Watch 100 of IMDb movies.
  30. Release the past.
  31. Get a PhD.
  32. Climb a Mountain.
  33. Walk/Dance barefoot in rain.
  34. Go on the road trip.
  35. Visit a Castle.
  36. visit a national park.
  37. Take a year off.
  38. Attend a cricket match.
  39. Knief a Scarf.
  40. To visit all historical place in India . It would be really fascinating.
  41. Complete a 30 day challenge.
  42. Fill my saving Jar.
  43. Invest in Gold.
  44. Have a incredible 50th b’day party.
  45. Write one gratitude sentence daily.
  46. Let my hair get really long.
  47. Hike a mountain
  48. Find my first love.
  49. Go Ghost Haunting.
  50. Improve Writing Skill.

Challenge of silence

Challenge of Silence : In this week , I am taking challenge of not speaking any word whole week , if their any important communication and emergency then I’ll contact or communicate only using what’s app and email.

Benefits of Speaking Less

Wise men speak when they have something to say. Fools speak because they have to say something — Plato.

When we’re unconscious of what we’re saying , these repetitive and negative thoughts become the main ingredients that comprise our speech, what we have to say.

Because most of what we think isn’t worth thinking , let alone speaking.

We might depend on communication , but talking isn’t always communication.

“It’s better to remain silent and be thought a fool than a speak and remove all doubt” — Abraham Lincoln.


Speaking less doesn’t necessarily mean thinking less , but it can lead to better quality thoughts.

These are gifts that come when we cultivate inner and outer silence. Because it’s impossible to be perceptive of what’s going on around you when you’re busy talking all the time.

Before you speak , ask yourself if what you are going to say is true , is kind , is necessary , is helpful. If the answer is no , maybe what you are about you are about to say should be left unsaid. — Bernard Meltzer.

Constantly Invest In Yourself

There is no more profitable investment than investing in yourself.


Make at least one improvement that makes you better at something every single day. It sounds daunting but improvement don’t have to be huge , they can be really small which incrementally leads to huge change.

Think improving just 1% each day and build upon that every single day. Doing so has a dramatic effect and will make us 37* better , not 365% (3.65*) better at the end of the year.

You need to fight to improve.

Good things came to those who go and get them , nobody achieved greatness waiting for it to find them.