Rule of Five Years

If you use five years wisely , you can come out the other side of them exactly where you want to be. Yes , Five years rule works….

It takes five years to fully re-invent yourself —- said by Entrepreneur James Altucher.

It takes four to six years to build a blog that create wealth —- said by Blogger Jon Morrow.

In between the five years — Use Rule 100 : Write 100 blog , do something 100 times to get good at it. Don’t focus on making each one perfect ; just focus on doing your things , over and over.

But first you have to start and be consistent throughout and Don’t quite.

In the beginning , we might just be trying to survive . Most people quit in this phase.

Bucket List

I created this bucket list from last 2 years ….bit by bit it grows and hit 50 bucket list ideas which I want to complete in my lifetime. In future , I also update this bucket list cause as life changes priority changes so may be This bucket hit 75 or 100 ideas in future. I wish , I hope , I complete this all bucket list.

  1. Achieve a Personal Satisfaction.
  2. Make a Journal of Life.
  3. Create Blog.
  4. Attempt Meditation.
  5. Watch a sunrise and sunset in one day.
  6. Cook a few food. [at least 20 new dishes ] [cook something new every day for 30 days].
  7. Leave a Love Note on Bathroom Mirror.
  8. Reconnect with the old friends.
  9. Write a letter to your Future self.
  10. Hug a Redwood.
  11. Change Your Hair.
  12. Read a Book you own.
  13. Go 24 Hours without Internet , Radio or Television. [Every month ]
  14. Sleep under the stars.
  15. Be Published.
  16. Design a website.
  17. Create a photo journal
  18. Master a new Language.
  19. Write my life story.
  20. Look 10 years younger.
  21. Go wine tasting . [ Learn wine appreciation]
  22. Create a traditional dish from different culture.
  23. Have a collection.
  24. Exercise daily 30 minutes at least [hit a fitness goal].
  25. Make a new friend.
  26. Became a morning person.
  27. Visit all India before die.
  28. Write a five years plan.
  29. Watch 100 of IMDb movies.
  30. Release the past.
  31. Get a PhD.
  32. Climb a Mountain.
  33. Walk/Dance barefoot in rain.
  34. Go on the road trip.
  35. Visit a Castle.
  36. visit a national park.
  37. Take a year off.
  38. Attend a cricket match.
  39. Knief a Scarf.
  40. To visit all historical place in India . It would be really fascinating.
  41. Complete a 30 day challenge.
  42. Fill my saving Jar.
  43. Invest in Gold.
  44. Have a incredible 50th b’day party.
  45. Write one gratitude sentence daily.
  46. Let my hair get really long.
  47. Hike a mountain
  48. Find my first love.
  49. Go Ghost Haunting.
  50. Improve Writing Skill.

Challenge of silence

Challenge of Silence : In this week , I am taking challenge of not speaking any word whole week , if their any important communication and emergency then I’ll contact or communicate only using what’s app and email.

Benefits of Speaking Less

Wise men speak when they have something to say. Fools speak because they have to say something — Plato.

When we’re unconscious of what we’re saying , these repetitive and negative thoughts become the main ingredients that comprise our speech, what we have to say.

Because most of what we think isn’t worth thinking , let alone speaking.

We might depend on communication , but talking isn’t always communication.

“It’s better to remain silent and be thought a fool than a speak and remove all doubt” — Abraham Lincoln.

Intelligence

Speaking less doesn’t necessarily mean thinking less , but it can lead to better quality thoughts.

These are gifts that come when we cultivate inner and outer silence. Because it’s impossible to be perceptive of what’s going on around you when you’re busy talking all the time.

Before you speak , ask yourself if what you are going to say is true , is kind , is necessary , is helpful. If the answer is no , maybe what you are about you are about to say should be left unsaid. — Bernard Meltzer.

Constantly Invest In Yourself

There is no more profitable investment than investing in yourself.

anonymous.

Make at least one improvement that makes you better at something every single day. It sounds daunting but improvement don’t have to be huge , they can be really small which incrementally leads to huge change.

Think improving just 1% each day and build upon that every single day. Doing so has a dramatic effect and will make us 37* better , not 365% (3.65*) better at the end of the year.

You need to fight to improve.

Good things came to those who go and get them , nobody achieved greatness waiting for it to find them.

Always Say Less Than Necessary

When you are trying to impress people with words , the more you say , the more common you appear, and the less in control.

Even if you saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague , open-ended and sphinx like.

Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say , the more likely you are to say something foolish.

Resource : The 48 laws of power.

Lessons From 20-Something

  • Failure is a necessary and valuable part of growing up , because by our 30s we will inevitably have faced some setbacks.
  • In our 30s , we are perhaps finally old enough to head some good life advice.
  • Don’t compare yourself to others.
  • Practice Gratitude.
  • Embrace the beautifully messy , ordinary adult lives most of us lead.
  • Don’t adhere too rigidly to any one vision for your life.
  • Be flexible and adaptable.
  • Finally , Figure out what you want verses what you think you want and adjust accordingly.

Learn Every Day

  1. You’ve got to train your brain to stay alert.
  2. You don’t have to read a book a day to learn every day. Go slowly .Continues reading one page or ten page a day also make you knowledgeable or intellectual. ( I started reading 5 years back , but it changed me completely ; Reading is one of the habit which is worth adapting , it also pay you the best of your life).
  3. Learn from your mistakes. ( My one of the biggest mistake is I lived in toxic people and friends . because of that i lost my peace for some time ; but later i recognized that having connection with these people is my mistake , So , currently , I removed all my toxic connection (people) )
  4. Learn from the people around you — be open to what they can teach you. ( Their are some people out who is intelligent and living the best life , their small small habits are best and worth adapting , you just have to notice and learned)
  5. Learn whatever hobby or skill you want from internet , Now-a-days , Internet makes a world open and connected. ( For example , last year I learned new hobby which is knitting ; for my knitting , I got inspired from word press blogger . By looking their knitting project , I tried and learned knitting. )