Never give up on a dream because of the time it will take to accomplish it . The time will pass anyway. —– Earl Nightingale ( American radio speaker and author )
Rejection hurts in the moment , but it also means that the right opportunity or person is still out there.
Some day you will be so happy this or that job or person did not work out , because then something or someone better can come along.
The more you learn about yourself , the more you will see the good and bad things of your attitude. People are complex being with good and bad traits. Sometimes these bad one take the best of us.
It’s immensely important to understand and accept yourself the way you are. It’s the only way to go if you want to be happy in life.
We are constantly changing, and that is a good thing. What would be even better , is if we recognize the change and make something positive out of them.
In conclusion , you can be happy and satisfied with what you are doing right now , but you should also keep learning and upgrading all the time.
If you cannot reconnect , focus on yourself in the most loving , intimate way possible. Relate to yourself as you would to a best friend. If needed , seek out a best friend. The key is to strengthen your connection with life as it unfolds in you.
Regardless of what happens in your social life , you are always a living miracle made of stardust , a part of nature that can never really become unattached from God or what agnostics call the web of existence.
When you are trying to impress people with words , the more you say , the more common you appear, and the less in control.
Even if you saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague , open-ended and sphinx like.
Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say , the more likely you are to say something foolish.
Resource : The 48 laws of power.
Actively learn to pay attention and demonstrate to others that you truly value their opinions and what they have to say…
Choose active listening , open-ended question , with supporting body language and remove any distractions that impede with your ability to listen.
Active listening habits pay a lot to your standard of life , Sometimes any conversation or just one sentence say a huge meaning but that time we have to listen actively to understand it.
Listen Actively …..Think on It …..
Life’s about progress , we can either move forward and relentlessly improve or be consumed and surpassed by horde which stands in wait behind us.
Conserve your forces and energies by keeping them concentrated at their strongest point.
You gain more by finding a rich mine and mining it deeper , than by flitting from one shallow mine to another – intensity defeats extensity every time.
When looking for sources of power to elevate you , find the one key patron , the fat cow who will give you milk for a long time to come.
Resource : The 48 law of power.
Believe it can be done. When you believe something can be done your mind will find the ways to do it. Believing a solution paves the way to solution.
Eliminate “impossible” , “won’t work” , “can’t do” , “no use trying” from your thinking and speaking vocabularies.
Don’t let tradition paralyze your mind .
Be receptive to new ideas . Be experimental. Try new approaches. Be progressive in everything you do.
Resource: The magic of thinking big.
All great leaders since Moses have known that a feared enemy must be crushed completely. [ Sometimes we have learned this hard way] . If one ember is left alight , no matter how dimly it smolders , a fire will eventually break out. More is lost through stopping halfway than through total annihilation.
The enemy will recover , and will seek revenge. Crush him , not only in body but in spirit. To crush your enemy partially means that they will eventually recover and seek revenge. Ultimately , you can only gain peace and serenity if your enemies cease to exist.
History is replete with examples of leaders who defeated their enemies but left them alive out of mercy. Of course , the opponent always bided his time , becoming ever more resentful and determined ever more resentful and determined , until he was strong enough to seek revenge.
Crush your enemy totally. Don’t go halfway with them or give them any option whatsoever. If you leave even one ember smoldering, it will eventually ignite. You can’t afford to be lenient.
Don’t negotiate – negotiation will undercut your victory. For your security — YOU MUST CRUSH YOUR ENEMIES.
resource : The 48 Laws of Power
- Don’t sell yourself short. Conquer the crime of self- deprecation. Concentrate on your assets. You are better than you think you are.
- Stretch your vision. See what can be, not just what is. Practice adding value to things , to people and to yourself.
- Think above trivial things. Focus your attention on big objectives. Before getting involved in a petty matter , ask yourself.
“is it really important?”
—- The Magic of Thinking Big