self help blog
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Always Say Less Than Necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words , the more you say , the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague , open-ended and sphinx like. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more… Continue reading
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Never Give Up
Never give up on a dream because of the time it will take to accomplish it . The time will pass anyway. —– Earl Nightingale ( American radio speaker and author ) Continue reading
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Things Don’t Work Out For A Person
Rejection hurts in the moment , but it also means that the right opportunity or person is still out there. Some day you will be so happy this or that job or person did not work out , because then something or someone better can come along. Continue reading
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Learn About Yourself
The more you learn about yourself , the more you will see the good and bad things of your attitude. People are complex being with good and bad traits. Sometimes these bad one take the best of us. It’s immensely important to understand and accept yourself the way you are. It’s the only way to… Continue reading
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Concentrate Your Forces
Life’s about progress , we can either move forward and relentlessly improve or be consumed and surpassed by horde which stands in wait behind us. Conserve your forces and energies by keeping them concentrated at their strongest point. You gain more by finding a rich mine and mining it deeper , than by flitting from… Continue reading
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Crush Your Enemy Totally
All great leaders since Moses have known that a feared enemy must be crushed completely. [ Sometimes we have learned this hard way] . If one ember is left alight , no matter how dimly it smolders , a fire will eventually break out. More is lost through stopping halfway than through total annihilation. The… Continue reading
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Grow Big By Thinking Big
Don’t sell yourself short. Conquer the crime of self- deprecation. Concentrate on your assets. You are better than you think you are. Stretch your vision. See what can be, not just what is. Practice adding value to things , to people and to yourself. Think above trivial things. Focus your attention on big objectives. Before… Continue reading
About Me
An English diarist and naval administrator. I served as administrator of the Royal Navy and Member of Parliament. I had no maritime experience, but I rose to be the Chief Secretary to the Admiralty under both King Charles II and King James II through patronage, diligence, and my talent for administration.