Any momentary trumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory . The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion.
It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your action without saying a words.
Demonstrate , do not explicate.
Resource : The 48 law of power.
The more you learn about yourself , the more you will see the good and bad things of your attitude. People are complex being with good and bad traits. Sometimes these bad one take the best of us.
It’s immensely important to understand and accept yourself the way you are. It’s the only way to go if you want to be happy in life.
We are constantly changing, and that is a good thing. What would be even better , is if we recognize the change and make something positive out of them.
In conclusion , you can be happy and satisfied with what you are doing right now , but you should also keep learning and upgrading all the time.
Believe in yourself . Have faith in your abilities.
Without a humble yet reasonable confidence in your own power , you cannot be successful or happy. A Sense of inadequacy interferes with the attainment of your hopes but self-confidence leads to self-realization and achievement.
But with self confidence , you can succeed.
Resource : The power of positive thinking .
When you are trying to impress people with words , the more you say , the more common you appear, and the less in control.
Even if you saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague , open-ended and sphinx like.
Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say , the more likely you are to say something foolish.
Resource : The 48 laws of power.
Every experience in life , everything with we have come in contact in life , is a chisel , which has been cutting away at our life statue. So choose the environment that will best develop you towards your objective.
Environment is your mind food. The kind of mind food we consume determines our habits , attitudes , personality. The mind reflects what its environment feeds it just as surely as the body reflects the food you feed it.
Each of us inherited a certain capacity to develop. But how much of that capacity we have developed and the way we have developed that capacity depends on the kind of mind food we’ve been fed.
Environment shapes us , makes us think the way we do . Make it Well.
Researcher agree that the person you are today , your personality , ambition , present status in life , are largely the result of your psychological environment.
Your future environment decides what kind of person you will be one , five , ten , twenty years from now.You will change over the months and years but how you will change depends on your future environment , the mind food you fed yourself .
Resource : The magic of thinking big (book)
Do not accept the roles that society foists on you. Re- create yourself by forging a new identity , one that commands attention and never bores the audience.
Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define it for you.
Incorporate dramatic devices into your public gestures and actions – your power will be enhanced and your character will seem larger than life.
Resource : The 48 laws of power.
Keep people off-balance and in dark by never revealing the purpose behind your action.
If they have no clue what you are up to , they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them enough far down wrong path , envelop them in a enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intention , it will be too late.
Do not reveal what you have thought upon doing , but by wise council keep it secret being determined to carry it into execution.
Resource : The 48 laws of power.
“A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies . . . The man who never reads lives only one.”
George R.R. Martin
The books , I want to read which i collect them from last 4 years but because of busy schedule of my Engineering and M.Tech studies I didn’t get time to read the book from by bucket list . The list of book , I collected are follow :
But In 2020 , because of Covid-19 lockdown , there are lot of time available to invest in our habits which we didn’t get in day to day life busy schedule. In Maharashtra , India , there are lockdown since from 24 march 2020 .India’s government announced lockdown in India till 31 May 2020. Because of Covid-19 panademic lockdown , Indian Television channel re-telecast their 1988’s show Mahabharat and Ramayan which got record break viewers and huge fan following in the 2020.
The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.
Dr. Seuss
The books are our best friend , they never leave us in any situation . Sometimes , they perform different role in our life . Books are our teacher , our mentor , our friends . Anytime if you want them with you they are available to you. If we develop reading habit in day-to -day life then after 5 years of reading we are different person . Books develop us tremendously .
Traveling is also one of my bucket list but in 2020 its doesn’t seen easy to travel around state and country. Because of Covid-19 pandemic , The 2020 is worst year for traveler. but the best thing about the books are they let you travel without moving your feet. So the more you read , the more information you get and more knowledgeable you became.
Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you seen and heard from , the more common you appear.
If you are already established in a group , temporary withdrawal from it will make up you more talked about , even more admired.
You must learn when to leave . Create value through scarcity.
Resource : The 48 law of power.
Look important -it helps you think important.
Rule : Remember your appearance “talks” . Be sure it says positive things about you. Never leaves home without feeling certain you look like the kind of person you want to be.
Most honest advertisement appearing in print — ” Dress Right , You can’t Afford Not To. “
One advertisement primarily for child but it can be applied to adults as well. “Look at yourself through your superior’s eyes , your associate’s eyes “
It costs so little to be neat . Take the slogan literally. Interpret it to say ” Dress Right , it always pays.”
People do evaluate you on the basis of your appearance. Your appearance is the first basis of your evaluation other people have. The point is : the better you are packaged , the more public acceptance you will receive.
Appearance is important but how do you expect me to afford the kind of clothing which really makes me feel right and which causes other to look up to me?
Answers is : ” Pay twice as much and buy half as many.”
In sofar as appearance is concerned , quality is for more important than quantity. Remember : Your appearance talks to you and it talks to others. Make certain it says , “Here is a person who has self-respect. He’s important . Treat him that way.”
You own it to others – but , more important , you own it to yourself – to look your best.
You are what you think you are . If your appearance makes you think you’re inferior , you are inferior . If it makes you think small , you are small.
Look your best and you will think and act your best.
Resource : The magic of thinking big by David J. Schwartz.
Image resource : Levi’s model (google).
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