Listen Actively

Actively learn to pay attention and demonstrate to others that you truly value their opinions and what they have to say…

Choose active listening , open-ended question , with supporting body language and remove any distractions that impede with your ability to listen.

Active listening habits pay a lot to your standard of life , Sometimes any conversation or just one sentence say a huge meaning but that time we have to listen actively to understand it.

Listen Actively …..Think on It …..

Happy Listening.

Place Of Happiness

Don’t chase happiness and you will find a happy place. I can tell you the place where happiness is — in YOU.

The road to happiness is the maximum development of all your abilities.

Happiness is product of nicely organized living.

If you want to prove something to someone , you exist only for that person. If you exist for yourself , then you don’t need to prove anything to anyone.

Set Boundaries

Boundaries aren’t about trying to control others or make them change.

Boundaries are an important form of self care ; you set and enforce boundaries for your own well-being.

Boundaries allow you to prioritize yourself and not overcommit or sign-up for things you can’t or don’t want to do.

Boundaries are necessary in friends and family , for their healthy connection with us. Overcommit and being their every time for everything may lead you to end your friendship or relationship.

So prioritize your friendship and family connection and set boundaries and live healthy connection.

Challenge of October : Detox from Phone.

I am taking 31 days of challenge to completely detox from phone. In the month of October , lets see what’s the effect of this challenge.

It’s not possible to leave away from technology because technology is most important part of our day to day life. For also blogging , we need technology …so in this month , I’ll do blogging using laptop only not mobile phone.

But social media and mobile phone makes a lot of impact on our life . Sometimes , I feel like I am totally in control of my phone . Form last 10 years , the technology grows so fast , and we use it everywhere from morning to night every second. Lots of times waste to just checking notification , email etc. Sometime , I miss my phone so much but i controlled a lot to not take phone for 31 days.

But , Just think what was a life at 90’s and before the technology came. The life in 80’s and 90’s are much peaceful and calm as compared to todays life. I am just a fan of 80’s and 90’s life but unfortunately I am today’s young adult with technology life. And I am technology Student so I support and doing research on latest technology but I love traditional things.

Detox from phone gives great benefits in day to day life. Let’s see after 31 days complete.

Keep Your Eye Focused On The Big Objective

Many times we’re like the salesman , who failing to make the sale , report to the manager, ” Yes , but I sure convinced the customer he was wrong. ” In selling , the big objective is winning sales , not arguments.

In marriage the big objective is peace , happiness , tranquility -not winning quarrels or saying , “I could have told you so.”

Paraphrasing some military lingo , it is much better to lose a battle and win the war than to win a battle and lose the war.

Resolve to keep your eyes on the big ball.

Magical Aloe Vera

In my Home Garden , their are 10+ aloe Vera plants. It gives best environment . If we plant aloe Vera in bedroom at night , it provides oxygen for Room. But Aloe Vera need sunrays for growth.

Aloe Vera is a popular medicinal plant that people have used for thousand of years.

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Aloe Vera

Now , the question is What’s the benefits aloe Vera give to humans ?

Their is lot of benefits and uses aloe Vera for human life if we use wisely.

  1. It have anti-ageing qualities.
  2. It cure any kind of stomach trouble and improve digestion.
  3. It gives you glowing and radiant skin.
  4. It remove tan , treat sunburn and stretch marks.
  5. It makes hair smooth & shiny and promotes hair growth.
  6. It accelerate wound healing.
  7. It improve skin and prevent wrinkles.
  8. It lower blood sugar level.

Aloe Vera is rich in Vitamin C and Vitamin E so it helps keeping skin young and happy.

Talk TO Strangers

Every friend you have was a stranger at one point.

Give people a chance and they may surprise you. You never know you could even end up meeting your best friend on the sidewalk , on the airplane or at the movies.

Be brave , Be smart.

When you first meet new people , there’s excitement. Every conversation reveals more about who you are and who they are. That means you can connect on a deep level and find similar experiences to share.

When you make new friends , then you will expose yourself to new things. Automatically , you will get the chance to learn new things and grab more knowledge. When you start working in different regions , then you explore a new culture.

It is not easy to find out why different people behave in a different way.

If you have so many friends or you have met enormous people in your life , then it becomes easier for you to find out their psychology.

When you speak with more people , then eventually you will have a good understanding of your life.

If you are one of those who love to stay home and do not want to put some efforts to go out to meet new persons, then you can’t grow your level.

All of us want to grow in our life and move to next level , therefore we should meet new people.

Talking to strangers are also have mental health beneficial.

What kind of person you are? Do you love meeting new people ? Do you want to make new friends?

Life of Every Human

The life of every human is a diary in which he/she means to write one story , and write another ; and his humblest hour is when he/she compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.

When there’s gap between who you are and who you intend to be , you are incongruent and unhappy. You’re torn , mentally exhausted , and regretful. You always slightly feel like a fraud to yourself , and probably to the people around you.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony. —Gandhi.

If you try to tackle everything wrong in your life , you’ll quickly burn out and quit. It’s happened many times before.

Thought of August 2021

Education is not the filling of a pail , but the lighting of a fire. — W.B. Yeats.

So Educate yourself as much as you can….their is no time limit for education.