Always Say Less Than Necessary

When you are trying to impress people with words , the more you say , the more common you appear, and the less in control.

Even if you saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague , open-ended and sphinx like.

Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say , the more likely you are to say something foolish.

Resource : The 48 laws of power.

Lessons From 20-Something

  • Failure is a necessary and valuable part of growing up , because by our 30s we will inevitably have faced some setbacks.
  • In our 30s , we are perhaps finally old enough to head some good life advice.
  • Don’t compare yourself to others.
  • Practice Gratitude.
  • Embrace the beautifully messy , ordinary adult lives most of us lead.
  • Don’t adhere too rigidly to any one vision for your life.
  • Be flexible and adaptable.
  • Finally , Figure out what you want verses what you think you want and adjust accordingly.

Learn Every Day

  1. You’ve got to train your brain to stay alert.
  2. You don’t have to read a book a day to learn every day. Go slowly .Continues reading one page or ten page a day also make you knowledgeable or intellectual. ( I started reading 5 years back , but it changed me completely ; Reading is one of the habit which is worth adapting , it also pay you the best of your life).
  3. Learn from your mistakes. ( My one of the biggest mistake is I lived in toxic people and friends . because of that i lost my peace for some time ; but later i recognized that having connection with these people is my mistake , So , currently , I removed all my toxic connection (people) )
  4. Learn from the people around you — be open to what they can teach you. ( Their are some people out who is intelligent and living the best life , their small small habits are best and worth adapting , you just have to notice and learned)
  5. Learn whatever hobby or skill you want from internet , Now-a-days , Internet makes a world open and connected. ( For example , last year I learned new hobby which is knitting ; for my knitting , I got inspired from word press blogger . By looking their knitting project , I tried and learned knitting. )

Things Don’t Work Out For A Person

Rejection hurts in the moment , but it also means that the right opportunity or person is still out there.

Some day you will be so happy this or that job or person did not work out , because then something or someone better can come along.

Gift Of Loneliness

If you learn to really sit loneliness and embrace it for the gift that it is —- an opportunity to get to know you , you learn how strong you really are to depend on no one but you for your happiness —- you will realize that a little happiness goes a long way in creating a richer , deeper more vibrant and colorful you.

Learn To Accept And Love Yourself

Love yourself first and everything else falls in line . You have to really love yourself to get anything done in this world.

In other words , show some self compassion.

Scientist say it can make you more successful because you’re learning from your missteps , instead of just berating yourself for them.

One self compassion exercise involves treating yourself as you are best person.

Invent your world ; Surround yourself with people , color , sound and work that nourish you.

Learn Something New

New skills help to keep your brain healthy. Sign up for a dance class or a creative writing workshop. Make music , write book , build software or anything. You’ll feel good about yourself .

Better yet , Master a new language.

The mental work it takes can slow the signs of aging and may even delay the effect of Alzheimer’s disease.