5 Rules To Become Strong In Life.

The personality is play a vital part in the life , then personality is strong or weak describe you in your life. There are 5 rules to became strong personality in life are important which are :

  1. Never stop learning and defining and re-defining yourself
  2. Forgot the past and welcome the future as a wholly new experience.
  3. Do everything for a purpose.
  4. Take yourself seriously.
  5. Review your friendship and relationship.

40- Days Challenge of 2020

The “40” days are remaining of year 2020 , the year 2020 are worst year because of pandemic but also the year “2020” gives us time for yourself . In this year , we learn about the life is more important than anything. And also the we got lot of time because of lock down of pandemic which teaches us about self-love and self-care because we have to maintain social- distance.

The “2020” is not the worst year because it teaches us a lot , it teaches us value of life , it teaches us value of self care and also it give chance to develop and improve yourself.

If we talk using the technological words then ” this year is just dedicated to system maintenance of the planet ”

Lets come on point of the blog which is “40 days Challenge of 2020 “. In 2020 only last 40 days are remaining so i am taking a 40 days challenge of ‘Gratitude Journal’ in which i have write in gratitude journal on daily basis for 40 days.

Whether you’re keeping a journal or writing as a meditation , it’s the same thing. What’s important is you’re having a relationship with your mind.

Natalie Goldberg.

Look at your writing time as personal relaxation time.It’s a time when you can de-stress and wind down. Journaling is for any one who can write.Journaling can be effective for many different reasons and help you reach a wide range of goals.

Basic goals of Gratitude Journaling :

  1. Try to write every day
  2. Make it easy
  3. Write whatever feels right.

Forgive Yourself

We can expect to have some regret and we shouldn’t feel bad about having them.

Journalist Kathryn Schulz.

Forgive yourself. Kicking yourself over past failures won’t change what happened , it will just leave you sore from being kicked so much.

Give up all hope for better past.

Own who you have been so it doesn’t own you.

The point isn’t to live without any regrets , the point is to not hate ourselves for having them.

We need to learn to love the flawed imperfect things that we create and to forgive ourselves for creating them.

Crush Your Enemy Totally

All great leaders since Moses have known that a feared enemy must be crushed completely. [ Sometimes we have learned this hard way] . If one ember is left alight , no matter how dimly it smolders , a fire will eventually break out. More is lost through stopping halfway than through total annihilation.

The enemy will recover , and will seek revenge. Crush him , not only in body but in spirit. To crush your enemy partially means that they will eventually recover and seek revenge. Ultimately , you can only gain peace and serenity if your enemies cease to exist.

History is replete with examples of leaders who defeated their enemies but left them alive out of mercy. Of course , the opponent always bided his time , becoming ever more resentful and determined ever more resentful and determined , until he was strong enough to seek revenge.

Crush your enemy totally. Don’t go halfway with them or give them any option whatsoever. If you leave even one ember smoldering, it will eventually ignite. You can’t afford to be lenient.

Don’t negotiate – negotiation will undercut your victory. For your security — YOU MUST CRUSH YOUR ENEMIES.

resource : The 48 Laws of Power

Let Go Of The Past

One of the biggest hindrance to personal growth is holding on to the past.

In order to be happy in the true sense of the term , it is very important to be in the present.

So, you must learn to release the ghosts of the past and clear skeletons from the cupboard.

Once we are able to feel the emotion and then release it , we also release all negative influence it has over us.

The most important part of letting go is approval of peoples. Once you can let go of the need of being approved and liked then you became immune.

Don’t Compare yourself to others

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.

Oprah Winfrey

Don’t Compare yourself to others . In social media age , it is tempting to beat yourself up if your friends are getting married , having kids and living a life of luxury.

Don’t compare your life to others…… There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time. —-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Research suggest that comparing yourself to others are pointless. That’s because , from the outside , people can seem a lot happier and less troubled than they really are.

The death of contentment is comparison to others.

We each live our own lives. By comparing yourself to others , the only thing you are going to do is hurt yourself.

Personality Begins when Comparison leaves off . Be Unique , Be Proud , Be Memorable , Be Confident.

Shannon L. Alder

How to deal with Toxic People

Don’t let negative and toxic people rent space in your head . Raise the rent and kick them out.

Robert Tew ( Football Player )

Toxic people are dangerous. They are dangerous to our self-esteem and inner peace.

Part of growing up is learning how to cut ties with toxic people-no matter who they are.

No relationship is worth destroying and diminishing the light that shines within us.Know how to walk away when the time is right.

There is not always two sides of story. Sometimes , there is only one. Know your story and make yourself the hero of it by accepting nothing less than the treatment you deserve in this life.