Conceal Your Intentions

Keep people off-balance and in dark by never revealing the purpose behind your action.

If they have no clue what you are up to , they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them enough far down wrong path , envelop them in a enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intention , it will be too late.

Do not reveal what you have thought upon doing , but by wise council keep it secret being determined to carry it into execution.

Resource : The 48 laws of power.

Concentrate Your Forces

Life’s about progress , we can either move forward and relentlessly improve or be consumed and surpassed by horde which stands in wait behind us.

Conserve your forces and energies by keeping them concentrated at their strongest point.

You gain more by finding a rich mine and mining it deeper , than by flitting from one shallow mine to another – intensity defeats extensity every time.

When looking for sources of power to elevate you , find the one key patron , the fat cow who will give you milk for a long time to come.

Resource : The 48 law of power.

You are Average of Five People You Spend the Most Time With

Show me your friends , I will tell you what you are..

vladimir lenin.

The people you spend the most time with shape who you are. They affect to which attitudes and behavior you are regularly exposed. Eventually you start to think like they think and behave like they behave.

According to Research of social psychologist of Harvard determine as much as 95% of success or failure in life depends on people of your life.

Make no mistake with it. You are judged by the company you keep. How we think is directly affected by the group we’re in .

Be sure you’re in the flock that thinks right.

5 Rules To Become Strong In Life.

The personality is play a vital part in the life , then personality is strong or weak describe you in your life. There are 5 rules to became strong personality in life are important which are :

  1. Never stop learning and defining and re-defining yourself
  2. Forgot the past and welcome the future as a wholly new experience.
  3. Do everything for a purpose.
  4. Take yourself seriously.
  5. Review your friendship and relationship.

Forgive Yourself

We can expect to have some regret and we shouldn’t feel bad about having them.

Journalist Kathryn Schulz.

Forgive yourself. Kicking yourself over past failures won’t change what happened , it will just leave you sore from being kicked so much.

Give up all hope for better past.

Own who you have been so it doesn’t own you.

The point isn’t to live without any regrets , the point is to not hate ourselves for having them.

We need to learn to love the flawed imperfect things that we create and to forgive ourselves for creating them.

Crush Your Enemy Totally

All great leaders since Moses have known that a feared enemy must be crushed completely. [ Sometimes we have learned this hard way] . If one ember is left alight , no matter how dimly it smolders , a fire will eventually break out. More is lost through stopping halfway than through total annihilation.

The enemy will recover , and will seek revenge. Crush him , not only in body but in spirit. To crush your enemy partially means that they will eventually recover and seek revenge. Ultimately , you can only gain peace and serenity if your enemies cease to exist.

History is replete with examples of leaders who defeated their enemies but left them alive out of mercy. Of course , the opponent always bided his time , becoming ever more resentful and determined ever more resentful and determined , until he was strong enough to seek revenge.

Crush your enemy totally. Don’t go halfway with them or give them any option whatsoever. If you leave even one ember smoldering, it will eventually ignite. You can’t afford to be lenient.

Don’t negotiate – negotiation will undercut your victory. For your security — YOU MUST CRUSH YOUR ENEMIES.

resource : The 48 Laws of Power

Let Go Of The Past

One of the biggest hindrance to personal growth is holding on to the past.

In order to be happy in the true sense of the term , it is very important to be in the present.

So, you must learn to release the ghosts of the past and clear skeletons from the cupboard.

Once we are able to feel the emotion and then release it , we also release all negative influence it has over us.

The most important part of letting go is approval of peoples. Once you can let go of the need of being approved and liked then you became immune.