Life of Every Human

The life of every human is a diary in which he/she means to write one story , and write another ; and his humblest hour is when he/she compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.

When there’s gap between who you are and who you intend to be , you are incongruent and unhappy. You’re torn , mentally exhausted , and regretful. You always slightly feel like a fraud to yourself , and probably to the people around you.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony. —Gandhi.

If you try to tackle everything wrong in your life , you’ll quickly burn out and quit. It’s happened many times before.

Talk TO Strangers

Every friend you have was a stranger at one point.

Give people a chance and they may surprise you. You never know you could even end up meeting your best friend on the sidewalk , on the airplane or at the movies.

Be brave , Be smart.

When you first meet new people , there’s excitement. Every conversation reveals more about who you are and who they are. That means you can connect on a deep level and find similar experiences to share.

When you make new friends , then you will expose yourself to new things. Automatically , you will get the chance to learn new things and grab more knowledge. When you start working in different regions , then you explore a new culture.

It is not easy to find out why different people behave in a different way.

If you have so many friends or you have met enormous people in your life , then it becomes easier for you to find out their psychology.

When you speak with more people , then eventually you will have a good understanding of your life.

If you are one of those who love to stay home and do not want to put some efforts to go out to meet new persons, then you can’t grow your level.

All of us want to grow in our life and move to next level , therefore we should meet new people.

Talking to strangers are also have mental health beneficial.

What kind of person you are? Do you love meeting new people ? Do you want to make new friends?

Don’t Compare yourself to others

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.

Oprah Winfrey

Don’t Compare yourself to others . In social media age , it is tempting to beat yourself up if your friends are getting married , having kids and living a life of luxury.

Don’t compare your life to others…… There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time. —-Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

Research suggest that comparing yourself to others are pointless. That’s because , from the outside , people can seem a lot happier and less troubled than they really are.

The death of contentment is comparison to others.

We each live our own lives. By comparing yourself to others , the only thing you are going to do is hurt yourself.

Personality Begins when Comparison leaves off . Be Unique , Be Proud , Be Memorable , Be Confident.

Shannon L. Alder

Magical Aloe Vera

In my Home Garden , their are 10+ aloe Vera plants. It gives best environment . If we plant aloe Vera in bedroom at night , it provides oxygen for Room. But Aloe Vera need sunrays for growth.

Aloe Vera is a popular medicinal plant that people have used for thousand of years.

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Aloe Vera

Now , the question is What’s the benefits aloe Vera give to humans ?

Their is lot of benefits and uses aloe Vera for human life if we use wisely.

  1. It have anti-ageing qualities.
  2. It cure any kind of stomach trouble and improve digestion.
  3. It gives you glowing and radiant skin.
  4. It remove tan , treat sunburn and stretch marks.
  5. It makes hair smooth & shiny and promotes hair growth.
  6. It accelerate wound healing.
  7. It improve skin and prevent wrinkles.
  8. It lower blood sugar level.

Aloe Vera is rich in Vitamin C and Vitamin E so it helps keeping skin young and happy.

Keep Others In Suspended Terror , Cultivate An Air Of Unpredictability

Humans are creatures of habit with an insatiable need to see familiarity in other people’s actions. Your predictability gives them a sense of control.

Turn the tables. Be deliberately unpredictable.

Behavior that seems to have no consistency on purpose will keep them off balance, and they will wear themselves out trying to explain your moves.

Taken to an extreme , this strategy can intimidate and terrorize.

Resource : The 48 laws of Power.

How to deal with Toxic People

Don’t let negative and toxic people rent space in your head . Raise the rent and kick them out.

Robert Tew ( Football Player )

Toxic people are dangerous. They are dangerous to our self-esteem and inner peace.

Part of growing up is learning how to cut ties with toxic people-no matter who they are.

No relationship is worth destroying and diminishing the light that shines within us.Know how to walk away when the time is right.

There is not always two sides of story. Sometimes , there is only one. Know your story and make yourself the hero of it by accepting nothing less than the treatment you deserve in this life.

Obstacles to Greatness

Bigger the ambition , greater will be the issues .

when you want to walk , the issues are few. When you choose to run a marathon , obviously there are more issues to deal with.

When you choose to merely exist , you face lesser issues . When you choose to live worthy of your potential , then you have to solve larger issues.

There has to be a difference between a history reader and history creator.

Grow Big By Thinking Big

  1. Don’t sell yourself short. Conquer the crime of self- deprecation. Concentrate on your assets. You are better than you think you are.
  2. Stretch your vision. See what can be, not just what is. Practice adding value to things , to people and to yourself.
  3. Think above trivial things. Focus your attention on big objectives. Before getting involved in a petty matter , ask yourself.

“is it really important?”

—- The Magic of Thinking Big