Boundaries aren’t about trying to control others or make them change.
Boundaries are an important form of self care ; you set and enforce boundaries for your own well-being.
Boundaries allow you to prioritize yourself and not overcommit or sign-up for things you can’t or don’t want to do.
Boundaries are necessary in friends and family , for their healthy connection with us. Overcommit and being their every time for everything may lead you to end your friendship or relationship.
So prioritize your friendship and family connection and set boundaries and live healthy connection.